朋友之间的距离
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Friendship needs to be nurtured with sincere heart and some skills. I am not preaching here but to express my true feelings. You should not care too much about your friend, when male or female. Otherwise, he or she will feel over pressure. But you should not neglect him or her. Otherwise you will lose contact forever. It is hard to reciprocate equal love to each other, whether for friends or lovers. There is always one party who would give more than receive, and it is exactly this party who would suffer the most once something goes wrong. Therefore, oftentimes, you should remind yourself not to give too much when dealing with your friend to prevent both of you from hurt. So now, I will not force others to do anything for me and bring them pressure.
朋友，需用心去经营，需有一定的艺术性。不是在讲教，而是有切身的体会。对一个朋友，且不论男女朋友，不能太过于重视，否则对方会觉得压力很大，会被你的重视压的喘不过气，但又不能过于疏忽，过于疏忽，可能就不会在有联系。无论是朋友之间，或是恋人之间，对对方的情感，肯定是无法对等的。总会有付出较多的一方，而往往是付出多的一方容易受到伤害。所以，现在很多时候在和朋友相处的时候，都会告戒自己，要控制自己的付出，这样会让自己和朋友都不受伤害。所以我现在不会强求别人，要尽量不要给别人带来压力。
Not all the people you know can become your friends. Everyone has his value of life, ways of behaving, interests and hobbies and personalities. Therefore, everyone has his own criteria to select friends. My principle of making friends is to achieve communication of hearts. I often hold that no one can live without friendship, assistance, care and support from others. When your friends encounter setbacks, if you can offer them a hand and help them out, it is more precious than any priceless gifts. The essence of friendship lies in reciprocal help and share of happiness and sorrows. Only by doing this can friendship last eternally.
生活中并不是所有的人都能成为朋友。每个人都有自己的人生态度、处世方式、情趣爱好和性格特点，选择朋友也有各自的标准和条件。我交朋友的原则是追求心灵的沟通。我常想，人生活在世界上，离不开友情，离不开互助，离不开关心，离不开支持。在朋友遇到困难、受到挫折时，如果伸出援助之手，帮助对方度过难关，战胜困难，要比赠送名贵礼品有用的多，也牢靠得多。既为朋友，就意味着相互承担着排忧解难、欢乐与共的义务。唯此，友谊才能持久常存。
Sometimes hurt will be engendered between friends, but more often than not, it is done unintentionally. However, help from your friends is indeed out of their heart! So please forget the hurt done unintentionally and keep sincere help from your friends in mind, and you will realize there are many real friends who care about you……In our lives, even the best friends will have some friction now and again, and our friendship may breakdown because of it. But when we could not fall into sleep on a lonely night and look into the sky, we could see a lot of beautiful memories, some of which may bring a huge affection to our heart. It is this feeling that makes us realize the significance of friends. For friendship, you should not be too close to your friends. Otherwise the relationship may become too complex. Nor should you be too remote from them. Otherwise you may lose contact. Only by staying at an apt distance to your friends can you truly sense each other’s sincerity and love. Everyone has his own life, so when you feel upset and discouraged, when you realize your friends become apathetic, please treasure your friendship, whether it is on the internet or in real life. Friendship is just like water and air to us! Do not feel sad only until you lose it!
朋友的相处伤害往往是无心的，帮助却是真心的，忘记那些无心的伤害;铭记那些对你真心帮助，你会发现这世上你有很多真心的朋友……在日常生活中，就算最要好的朋友也会有摩擦，我们也许会因这些摩擦而分开。但每当夜阑人静时，我们望向星空，总会看到过去的美好回忆。一些琐碎的回忆为我寂寞的心灵带来无限的震撼!就是这感觉，令我更明白朋友对我的重要! 友情也是一样的，太近了关系会变的复杂，太远了，就失去了联系，不近不远刚刚好，只能感受到彼此的真诚与情谊。每一个人都有一方属于自己的乐土，朋友，当你心情沮丧的时候，当你灰心失望的时候，当你觉得好友渐渐淡漠的时候，请珍惜朋友真挚的友情，不管是在网络的友情还是现实生活中的，友谊如同空气如水，不要到失去的时候才痛感它的可贵。
I want to own a huge number of bosom friends, but I know it is out of the question. I just let it be without thinking too much. Those who are doomed to be my friends will come to me naturally, while those who are not can barely be retained once they want to leave from me. When friendship comes to an end, it is no need to sigh and insist. Rather, we should get rid of the pessimistic side and showcase our most graceful personality to others. We should live a life with our lives, because we are living not for pain, but for happiness that stems from mutual understanding.
我想永远拥有许多真心的朋友，但我深知这是不可能的。离散聚合，应顺其自然，不必勉强。属于我的朋友，会向我走来，不属于我的朋友，留也留不住，如果真到了一躬而别的时候，无须哀怨，更不能太计较太执著了，权且将人生悲凉灰颓的一面独自吞咽，再将亮丽壮美的品质展示给他人，用生命去体验人生就是。因为人活着不是为了痛苦，人生乐在心相知。
Please cherish your friends no matter what happens. Maybe your friendship will not last long or will be forgotten one day, but you should attach enough importance to it. It is a seed that will bud, grow leaves, blossom and even bear fruits in your heart once you care about it. The flagrance from the blooming flowers will accompany you all your life……
珍惜身边的每一份友情，无论它是不是已经过去，无论它会不会有将来。也许不会天长地久，也许会淡忘，也许会疏远，但却从来都不应该遗忘。它是一粒种子，珍惜了，就会在你的心里萌芽，抽叶，开花，直至结果。而那种绽放时的清香也将伴你前行一生一世…… Oh,I see. Everyone has his own life, so when you feel upset and discouraged, when you realize your friends become apathetic, please treasure your friendship, whether it is on the internet or in real life. Friendship is just like water and air to us! Do not feel sad only until you lose it!
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