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evaxiaofan 发表于 2011-1-17 16:08

点滴故事:不要试图改变某人NO OVERPOWERING

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Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."

[color=#0000cc]It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. [/color][color=#0000cc]It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.. [/color]

yy2235 发表于 2011-1-17 16:24

We shouldn't demand more, only enjoy life, enjoy the spouse character.

evaxiaofan 发表于 2011-1-17 22:05

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    that's right, you choose this man or woman, that means you also love all of this person's, including merits and demerits.

yy2235 发表于 2011-1-18 08:01

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    yes, I think so.

zhouzhou2010-yy 发表于 2011-1-18 09:14

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