你被“逼婚”了吗
[size=10.5pt][font=宋体] [b][color=#153774]你被“逼婚”了吗[/color][/b][/font][/size][size=10.5pt][font=宋体]和二十年，甚至十年前相比，我们的社会都改变了很多。生活节奏越来越快，享受生活却越来越难；赚的钱多了，物价涨得却比工资还快；世界越来越小，找位合意的伴侣却越来越难；拍拖好像越来越容易，结婚却越来越难。于是就有众多大龄男女青年们被家长赶着去相亲、结婚；也有相恋多年的情人之间上演“逼婚”这场戏。[/font][/size]
[size=10.5pt][font=宋体] 不管是被情人逼婚还是被家长逼婚，总是有点不大情愿，需要武力来迫使某人就范，这样的婚姻就是 forced marriage，也就是被逼成婚啦。那要表示“强迫某人和谁结婚”怎么说呢？可以用force someone to marry someone，例如：[/font][/size]
[size=10.5pt][font=宋体] [/font][font=宋体]My cousin was forced to marry a girl he doesn't love.
我表哥被迫与一个他不爱的女孩结了婚。[/font][/size]
[size=10.5pt][font=宋体] [/font][font=宋体]My girlfriend force me to marry her within one month.
我女朋友逼我一个月内跟她结婚。[/font][/size]
[size=10.5pt][font=宋体] 曾经看过一条消息，说一个阿拉伯人被父母逼着结了四次婚，原文是这样写的：A Saudi man is in hospital after his divorced parents forced him to marry four times within six months. （就算可怜天下父母心，这样做是不是也太过分了？）这里的marry 是用做不及物动词，表示“结婚”，比如 They married in their twenties.
[size=10.5pt][font=宋体] 如果不出现结婚对象，只是表示“被逼结婚”的话，还可以说 force into a marriage，在英国 Citizens Advice Bureau 的网站上关于 forced marriage 有这样的陈述：It is a criminal offence to force a person to marry under duress. If you are afraid that you may be forced into a marriage in this country, the police should be contacted. This is also the case where there is concern that another person may be forced into a marriage. If you are afraid that you may be forced into marriage overseas, you should, before travelling, contact the address below for advice.[/font][/size]
[size=10.5pt][font=宋体] “逼婚”除了用force 表示“强迫”外，还可以用make.如果你说“make”一个人做什么事情，就有“迫使”人家的意思，例如：Why People want to make you marry?[/font][/size]
[size=10.5pt][font=宋体] 那如果是因为怀孕了而被迫结婚要怎么说呢？就是 shotgun marriage，也叫做 shotgun wedding.Shotgun 的意思是霰弹枪，shotgun wedding 原指女方拿枪逼男方结婚，如今则指因为怀孕而被迫结婚的婚礼，也叫 military wedding.[/font][/size]
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