美文赏析:学会拒绝，你才能走得更远
[p=23, 2, left][size=4]If you don't want to do something for somebody, you should manage to say "No." in the first place.如果你不想为一个人做什么事情，你一开始就应该说“不。”[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]
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[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]The moment you give in, you've given them the impression that they can use your time as long as they try hard enough.
你一旦让步，就会让他们以为只要多做些努力就能占用你的时间。[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]
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[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]No "Let me see."
不要说“我看看。”[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]
[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]No "Maybe."
不要说“可能吧。”[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]
[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]Just "No." and a "Sorry." if you want to be polite.
直接说“不。”，如果你想表现得礼貌点就加一个“抱歉。”[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]
[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]Or you can ask "How much?" if it suits you.
或者，如果你觉得可行，也可以问问“你愿意出多少钱？”[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]
[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]Time is the most precious thing that we have.
时间是我们所拥有的最珍贵的东西。[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]
[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]Once you lose a piece of it, you can never get it back.
一旦你失去了一段时间，你永远不可能重新得到它。[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]
[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]And you have the freedom to decide how to use each piece of it.
而你有权利自由支配自己的每一份时间。[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]
[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]So if someone want a piece of your time, they have to be worth it, either by being someone you truly care or by providing enough payment.
所以，如果有人想动用你的时间，那他们最好配得上它：要么，他们是你真正关心的人；要么，他们愿意付足够多的报酬。[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]
[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]Let me say it once again.
让我再说一遍。[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]
[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]Time is the most precious thing that we have. Learn to refuse when people ask for your time.
时间是我们所拥有的最珍贵的东西。当有人想要你的时间的时候，学会拒绝。[/size][/p][p=23, 2, left][size=4]
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