【第94期】2010-12-05：婚姻是不是爱情的坟墓？ 爱情, 坟墓, 婚姻

Solusrex

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本期话题：婚姻是不是爱情的坟墓？

     常言道，婚姻是爱情的坟墓。

    People always say: Marriage is the grave of love.

    恋爱带给你浪漫，激情，相反的是，婚姻给你负上责任的重担，新鲜感也逐渐逝去。

    Courtship presents you with romance,passion,on the contrary, marriage burdens one with responsibility and the newness would soon wear off.

    亲爱的朋友们，你是否认同婚姻是爱情的坟墓这一说法呢？

    My dear friends,do you quite approve of the idea that marriage is the grave of love?

davy10

of course not ,if you really love your husband or wife ,you will find the responsibility is one kind of happiness , and your life will be filled with newness.

yuanchunrong

I don't agree with this view.Marrage is so beautiful,The couple love each other,Everything inclouding good and bad is happy to them.If you are not married ,will you have responsibility?

xiaomeixin

I don't think so.I think everyone want to have happiness.And you can find the responsibility is one of your pleasure.And you can have your own baby.How wonderful it is.

shenjunqun

maybe

kinglongyy

Courtship presents you with romance,passion,on the contrary, marriage burdens one with responsibility and the newness would soon wear off.


i approve this point, coz courtship is different with marriage. i believe staying with each other forever needs us to be lenient

洛溪BB

If we expect the love must be  spectacular and passionate,maybe we will agree that  marriage is the grave of love.But this love just with passion will go away soon.I think, the really love include many factors such as warmth,care ,responsibility and so on.All this factors make the tow people in love like the family members. So,in my view,the complete love that a man give a woman should consis of a sincere marriage for the average people.（不排除特殊情况，但他们会相爱一辈子，有无一张纸已经无关重要了）(I find that recently I always makes comments on the articles about love)

Solusrex

If we expect the love must be  spectacular and passionate,maybe we will agree that  marriage is the  ...
洛溪BB 发表于 2010-12-3 23:07

    Love is the eternal topic of human beings

xc424728

I don't think so
I think Marriage is  the  sublimation  of   love.

洛溪BB

回复 9# xc424728


    I agree with you!!Your few words summed up what I said above

Christine1314

回复 9# xc424728


    +1, described perfectly!