对孩子溺爱的坏处 mother, generation, third, thinks, become

SugerDaisy

A famous mother in america said, it is not good for the children to be very spoiled, in the third generation when the parents are more wealthier and more comfortable, she thinks those children in the America and may be also in China, the children become more spoiled, and very materalistic, it's a kind of selfish. What's your opinion?

虎妈认为过于溺爱对孩子不益。要知道在美国，作为第三代，当父母更加富裕，生活更加舒适，这些孩子备受宠爱，变得更加物质，自私自利。可能中国也有这样的问题。你怎么看过于溺爱对孩子的消极影响？

dragon520

Not maybe,but sure.

xiaomeixin

I think that the children should not be too spoiled.Even though they have been working for years,many people still don't know how to cook dinner or wash clothes.They don't know how to live without their parents.

itsmypink

i think it is not valid too more spoil children .
they need independence , or they will miss themselves if they secure things simply .

SugerDaisy

回复 2# dragon520


    Yeah, I kinda don't like play with little children today.

SugerDaisy

回复 3# xiaomeixin


    Yaa, we should take this seriously.

王笑天

it is right

seaso

the children to be very spoiled is so unfair to them.they will improve slowly on their thought and work don't care about others but think of themselves.the fault is in source of their parents.

Bree

Children are born in the 21st century which is a nice period with abundant substance. And one more thing, every family almost has a only child now, so their parents give them what they want, do what they require, the parents even never say no to them. As time passes, when they grow up, they become selfish, and only think of their own benefits, never care others...So they have been spoiled deeply. At home they were princess and prince

心魔作祟

We cannot excessive in the favour of the children。（电子翻译的）