you have no common words with the lover,then how to do boyfriend

月色倾城

Maybe you have got marriaged,maybe you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend,then if you have no common words with your  lover,what shall you do??

IamQiushi

Iam sorry to hear that. If i have no commmon words with my lover，I wiil reduce the time that spend on my hobby and share with her.To my surprise，lovers have no common words.How r we get together if we don‘t have the same  favor？

mubu

What do you mean by 'common words'??? That you don't share the same culture? Well, if that is the case, more time is bound to be spent for miscommunication/misunderstanding. Patience, the key is patience.

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回复 2# IamQiushi


    Maybe at the beginning,the have some same topics. Maybe it's the different work,different surroundings made them have no words. ...so,lovers should spent more time together ..

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回复 3# mubu


    yeah,communation is improtant not only for lovers but also for friends. family members.etc.

xiaomeixin

If both the lovers don't have topic to talk together,how can they be together?

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回复 6# xiaomeixin
It's really a pity,I suppose that their relationship wont last long...

Sanmal

You can try to spend more time with her, and you can do something together!
I believe that if you try to do it, you will find a hobby that you both enjoy, such as horse back riding or tennis.

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回复 8# Sanmal


    good suggestion. Thanks.

陈秀玲

if I have no comend words with my lover , I will break up our relation without any hesitation! because there will be no happiness for our future . perhaps seperation is good to each other .

Megan梅

I‘m sorry to hear that.  first ,I will spend more time getting along with he or she and try to find some topic that both of you may interest in,.But if you two guys do have nothing in common, maybe you are just  unfit for each other

孙扬s

Maybe you just need more time to communicate with each other,talk with her more,spend more time with her and try your best to find out your commen intersts.There must be something that both of you are enjoy ,it just need time to be found.
    Good luck to you.May you a bright furture and enjoy yourself.