50 Things That Really Do Matter（1） dream, 梦境, word

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50 Things That Really Do Matter（1）
       幸福生活的50个建议（1）


What is happiness? Diffrent people have diffrent answer,even thought,the feeling about happiness is the same for us.


These is my opinions for happiness......
在我看来，幸福的生活是。。。。

1  Listening enough to care and caring enough to listen.
    学会倾听，因为倾听是关爱的一种方式。

2  Being a dreamer but not living in a dream word.
    有所梦想，但不沉溺于梦境。

3  Saying"It doesn't matter" and meaning it.
    说句没关系，并使其有真正意义。

4  Being a positive influence in any way possible,to as many as possibel,for as long as I possibly can.
    尽可能使更多的事情产生积极影响。

5  Balancing justice with mercy and fairness with commonsense.
    以仁慈评判正义，以常理评判公正。

6  Being patient and patiently enduring.
    不急不躁，永不言弃。

7  Earning credibility instead of demanding compliance.
    努力赢取别人的信任而非更多地服从。

8  Valuing the wisdom of discernment,the danger of pleasure without restraint,and the joy of victory with integrity.
    重视培养洞察力，不冒险纵情欢娱，懂得适可而止，以平和的心态面对胜利的喜悦。

9  Being worthy of trust and trusting what's worthwhile.
    懂得信任的价值并信赖一切值得信赖的事物。

10 Enjoying all things small and beautiful.
    善于欣赏所以小而美的东西。

11 Words that heal.
     以言语安慰他人。

12 words that help.
     以言语帮助他人。

13 And words that encourage.
    以言语鼓励他人。

14 Forgiving myself for what I have done and others for what they haven't.
     宽恕自己之已所为，原谅他人之不知之为。

15 Gaining what I desire without losing what I should gain.
     以不失去应得之物为前提获得所想之物。