Thursday, January 4, 2007
Give a little kindness
A negative attitude can be contagious. Fortunately, so can a
positive attitude.
One of the biggest challenges of staying positively focused
can come from the negative people who cross your path. Yet
instead of letting them get you down, you can choose to lift
them up.
When someone is rude to you, the most powerful response is
not to reply with your own rudeness. After all, what would
that accomplish?
Your best choice in such a situation is to respond with
courtesy, kindness, consideration and understanding. Though
it may seem strange and unnatural at first, it can have a
profoundly positive impact on the situation.
Most people, when given the chance, will be glad for you to
rescue them from their own negative momentum. When you come
across someone who is clearly in a bad mood, you have the
opportunity to be the best part of that person's day.
Seize that opportunity and make the most of it. When you
give a little kindness, it can make a big, big
difference.
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