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xiaomeixin

有人说，爱是无私的，我们应该给予更多的爱给他人。还有人说，如果我们不爱自己，怎么能爱别人呢？我们的爱情哲学和对方不同，这引起了不同的爱情誓言。在任何情况下，你会选择哪个，给予更多的爱给别人还是从别人那里得到更多的爱？

Some people said, love is selfless, we should give more love to others. While other people said, how can we love others if we don’t love ourselves? Our love philosophy is different from each other, which raises different oaths about love. In any case, which would you choose, give more love to others or get more love from others？

Rachel0818

我更倾向于选择自己喜欢的，如果要我和没感觉的人在一起，感觉很痛苦还不如不谈。或许找个喜欢自己的才是明智的选择，但是我还是想找个自己喜欢的人，我应该是属于付出型的。当然，两情相悦是最好不过的事了。期待得到更多的爱但同时我们也需要给予别人更多的爱，毕竟感情是相互的。没有谁对谁错，只有在对的时间遇到对的那个人才是真正能相守到老的ta吧。感情这东西很不公平，不是你付出了就一定会有回报，有时也许付出的越多受到的伤害反而越大。不要轻易开始一段感情，更不要轻易放弃一段感情，应该是这么说吧。珍惜眼前人。简简单单的，能天天在一起已经是天大的恩赐了。不要奢求太多。平平淡淡才是真。爱的最高境界是经得起平淡的流年。曾经的山盟海誓海枯石烂总会过去，激情过后需要的是我们能在平淡中坚持相守，那才是真正的爱情。

莎莎dawn

I feel love is mutual,you wanna get  loves from somebody at the same time you should give more loves to him~!~!

xiaomeixin

回复 3# 莎莎dawn


    I am quite agree with you.

sunny萝卜

I prefer to give love to,for this thing is that i can control.
Get much love from others is too much for me,it is hard for me to handle .

kobe

I think it is equal between them,you give more,you obtained more!

kycu

I think one should love himself (or herself)but at the same time learn to give love to others.

luqingling2599

love others, others will love you.but sometimes don't wait someone give you more love,you should learn to give everyone love first.

zora

give more love to others.If my love can make others happy,I will happy ,too!

kuangye678

回复 2# Rachel0818


    i can't agree with you more.

kuangye678

i will give someone love first till she also love me. but if the love is humble,i will choose to give up.i need her to understand me.

Rachel0818

回复 10# kuangye678


    u know me