that's people's in the habit of the way,they maybe think it's safe and usual,perhaps they are lack of courage and faith...there are lots of difficulty to face and people should fight with itself at first.
The biggest problem is that most people are "too lazy" to make action. They have fear about the future.
I agree with " leo-liu "it is difficult to change oneself actually ,but everyone in the world should learn to change." I am keep learning and changing ....
i used to like to challenge my life. but at present, i can not make big changes in my road, for i have choosed one and sticked on it almost 11years. i am pursuing a doctor degree in my field. the only thing i want to do now is that i appreciate to improve myself in this field.
If a person want to change, he/she have to determined of it.
My tips is write down what I want too change and post it infront of my desk.
Everyday when I wake up and walk to my desk, I'll see what I've wrote in the past.