The wife says to the neighbor:" My  husband  has  not returned  all   the  night; I  do not know where  he went . It  really   gives  me  a  hangup（难以摆脱的烦恼，焦虑）!"
An  insider(知情人) says:" Let  it  be. Would  you  know where  he  went, I dare to say that you would be more  anxious ."

oh,no,where he went?
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