两地恋爱 爱, 两地

yo1

恋爱是最美好的，那时总希望个人可以朝夕相处、耳鬓斯磨，总想天天可以听到《他》《她》的声音。都不希望俩人是隔着电话的争吵。不用忍受敲打在键盘上的思念，但是有时候事情不是这么美好，有时候我们爱的人不在身边，甚至是在不同的城市呼吸着不同的空气，这种远距离的恋人，我们要么去爱呢？或者到底要不要走下去呢？

Talking   about your feelings.
Hurriedly write down here. 。。。


  


                                                         















                                                                     

tingroom

i can bear it before i marry him.

Jessicalv

if i have to face  it one day ,i will.

yo1

回复 2# tingroom


    May be a good choice.

yo1

回复 3# Jessicalv


    You are very optimistic.

Jessicalv

回复 5# yo1


     必须的

leo-liu

I have this boring experience one year ago ,but both of us resolve it via video chat、 phone and meeting lover once a month.
so ,I advise you  can study me if you fall in love now.

yo1

回复 7# leo-liu


    haha,,mabe,,

whitesowhite8

There are two kinds of love: passionate and companionate.

Passionate love is like a fire. It is like a drug, which you can addict. At the beginning of the relationship, we want to see each other days and night. It's sweet and it gives you a pleasant feeling. However, the passionate love cannot keep you continuously high and happy.

True love, the love that keep you a strong relationship is simply strong companionate love.
"Companionate love grows slowly over the years as lovers apply their attachment and caregiving system to each other, and as they begin to reply upon, care for, and trust each other." (It is base on both of you about what you do to your lover, how trust you feel about him, it is about how much you care for each other determine if can keep your long distant relationship)

最後決定：不在乎你們有多熱情愛對方，而是你們有多信賴，多關心及多照顧對方。

yo1

great

时间灰尘

我实在太能理会那种感觉了，因为我就是这么过来的。异地恋太辛苦，一般人坚持不了，而坚持下来的，感情也会变得和正常的有点不一样——或者每个人也有差异，这只是我的体会罢了。

觉醒ing

接受不了异地恋，如果没结婚就先解决异地问题，解决不了就分开；如果已结婚，更不能接受异地分居。异地分居完全失去了结婚的意义，对两人是不公平的，也太过残忍。

youyine

Thanks.

小尾巴猪

我现在就处于异地恋的情况。。。。I can accept it in short time.

tailuo

这是个现实问题，

ellenhao123

There are two kinds of love: passionate and companionate.

Passionate love is like a fire. It is lik ...
whitesowhite8 发表于 2011-10-15 16:00

ellenhao123

beautiful replies are always attractive,and i always want to collect and store them in my zone, but how?

yo1

回复 17# ellenhao123


    You want to express what?

yo1

回复 13# youyine


    why?

yo1

回复 14# 小尾巴猪
Good . Too long time will stale