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Chicken Soup For The Soul

People always come into your life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.  

When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly and inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend(n.天赐之物) to you, and they are.

When people come into your life for season, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.

Lifetime relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your joy is to accept the lesson, love the person; and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant（adj.透视的，有洞察力的）. Thank you for being part of my life.

      人们总会进入你的生活，因为某个原因，某个季节，抑或是一生的时间。当你将这一切弄明白的时候，你就会知道你该如何去做。
      当某人出现在你生活中是基于某个理由，通常是要迎合你外在或者是内在所表现出的需求。他们走进你的生活，助你渡过难关，或者是给你提供指导和支持，在身体上，感情上，甚至是在精神上帮助你。似乎是上帝派他们来的，他们也的确如此。
     当某人来到你的生命中，停留了一个季节，那是因为轮到你来分享，成长或者学习了。他们为你带来一段平静的经历或者使你开心。也许，他们还教会你不曾会做的事情。他们总会赐予你无边的欢乐。请一定要相信！这是千真万确的！但是这些只会持续一个季节的时间。恰如春天走到夏天，夏天又走到秋天一般，每一个季节终究会走到重点，天下没有不散的筵席。
      一生的关系能赐予你一生的经验，但是你务必将这些东西建立在坚实的基础上以便于获得坚固的感情基础。你的快乐就是要接受这些经验，爱这个人；并将你所学会的东西运用你生命中其他的关系和领域中去。

      人们常说，爱情是瞎子而友情是千里眼。无论如何，都要感谢他们成为你生命的一部份。