please read the story carefully,then translate red sentences and tell me what are you thinking about when you read the whole story~Don't be shy,just make your imagination fly in your sky!
Suppose a child comes home with a report card with five As and one B. Usually the first thing his parents will say is "Why the B?" What do you think will go through the child’s mind? Did he try for the B? Or should his parents congratulate the child for the B and accept a lower standard? Not at all.
What the child is really looking for acknowledgement and encouragement for the effort in getting the five As. A parent after acknowledging and praising the As, can make clear his expectations of seeing all six As and offer help if needed. If we lower our standards, the chances are pretty good that the performance next time would drop to those expectations.
Similarly at work, an employee does 100 things right and one thing wrong. Guess what the boss picks on.
Acknowledge the positive but don't lower your standards.
假如一个孩子带回家一张五个A，一个B的成绩单，他的父母亲首先通常会这样问：“为什么得了个B？”你认为孩子心里会怎么想？难道他是争取得个B吗？或者父母亲应该祝贺孩子得了个B，并接受这较低的标准吗？根本不是。
What the child is really looking for acknowledgement and encouragement for the effort in getting the five As.
孩子想要的是认同并且鼓励他取得5个A的努力
Acknowledge the positive but don't lower your standards.
认同积极的但是不要降低你的标准作者: kevin_lee 时间: 2011-6-15 08:14
do what you think it's right and let others say!
or walk ourselves road and let others say!作者: amazon496 时间: 2011-6-24 14:53
The boss will say"good job!2355,you could accomplish better "Boss is the one who rocks one's brains to encourage you work hard.作者: mzklhy 时间: 2011-7-19 21:28
The wise boss always praises the right which you have done
a good job,then tell you what you should doand be careful about the wrong.so you will have a good mood and have a further progress.on the contrary ，The stupid man often does things foolishly.they often pick on the wrongs.NO matter what you have or not done a good job.I have met the stupid one.so poor .作者: bubu熊 时间: 2011-8-13 17:40
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please read the story carefully,then translate red sentences and tell me what are you thinking about when you read the whole story~Don't be shy,just make your imagination fly in your sky!
