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作者: xiaomeixin    时间: 2011-6-22 14:36     标题: 你支持“裸婚”吗?

Do you accept naked wedding?

裸婚的意思是新婚夫妇没有房、没有车、没有钻戒或盛大的婚礼的现象。


It (naked wedding) means newlyweds without a house, car, diamond ring or grand wedding ceremony.


What's your ideas about "naked wedding".Can you accept it?Tell us your opinion.


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作者: 泡泡abc    时间: 2011-6-22 15:22

e... I think this type of wedding will lead bigger conflict since marriage.
作者: godfly-ygw    时间: 2011-6-22 21:03

i think that price of the house is too expensive  Now,For a common family really can not accept ,so naked wedding can be accepted under this case,
作者: 懂你LOVE    时间: 2011-6-22 22:31

wedding should be naked!!of course.
作者: Erikadyn    时间: 2011-6-22 23:11

I can accept others' naked wedding. As for myself I will not accept. at least we should have a fomal wedding ceremony which is the special moment in life,after all time waits for no man. of course cars ,houses are not the must. we can strive  to  earn them after we get married
作者: lilystudy    时间: 2011-6-23 08:55

本帖最后由 xiaomeixin 于 2011-6-23 10:11 编辑

I can't accept naked wedding, Because life is real, love and economics are both indispensable(indispensable).
作者: tingroom    时间: 2011-6-23 09:25

i think i need a house,no matter how small it is,it made me feel safe.
作者: xiaomeixin    时间: 2011-6-23 10:09

回复 2# 泡泡abc


    Yeah,I think so.We all wish to have a better life.We can't without many many things.Without houses and cars,life will be very hard.Not everybody can stand it.
作者: xiaomeixin    时间: 2011-6-23 10:16

回复 7# tingroom


    Without a house,we don't know where to spend the nights and it is unsafe,definitely.And as for me,I just want to sleep with my own bed in my home,when I must sleep with a strange bed,I can't sleep well.
作者: 练习者    时间: 2011-6-23 11:09

I can  accept that type of wedding.,for marriage is only two lovely people living together and caring for each other,so,house ,car ,diamond and grand wedding ceremony is not important ,exactly to say, this things is not necessary.What is more,young people have not enough money to buy this things ,so they have to ask their parents for help which make great burden on their parents.
作者: Rachel0818    时间: 2011-6-23 11:21

本帖最后由 xiaomeixin 于 2011-6-23 11:40 编辑

If love each other, those things are not important. They can gain those later. True love is so rare that we should teasure(treasure) it.
作者: cradlexy    时间: 2011-6-23 11:33

本帖最后由 xiaomeixin 于 2011-6-23 11:41 编辑

The most importance(important,the most important is a phrase) is he really love you or not(delete),and care for you forever.
作者: Rachel0818    时间: 2011-6-23 11:43

回复 11# Rachel0818


    thx so much, 笔误。
作者: SugerDaisy    时间: 2011-6-23 13:23

I can accept this if I believe my husband and I are hard workers, so we could afford it later. But the diamond ring is necessary, because I love ring.
作者: 泡泡abc    时间: 2011-6-23 15:02

本帖最后由 xiaomeixin 于 2011-6-23 16:27 编辑

he-he I think most girls cann't(can't) accept naked wedding,while boys like it very much!
作者: 莎莎dawn    时间: 2011-6-23 15:08

回复 7# tingroom


    Yeah,I am agree with you,yoyo!Perhaps we needn't the luxury ceremony,a diamond ring,a cool car,but we must need a lovely home ,our home~!~!
作者: tingroom    时间: 2011-6-24 09:41

回复 16# 莎莎dawn


    sweet room!
作者: xuxiaolin    时间: 2011-6-24 10:25

本帖最后由 xiaomeixin 于 2011-6-24 11:34 编辑

Not only i but also many people in China can not understand this behavior, because marriage in China is not a personal thing but a relation of two family . Naked wedding in China is not a(an) easy thing .
这关键是家人面子问题,俗话说的好啊,嫁汉嫁汉穿衣吃饭。这个和低调没关系。可以没有车但是得有房,酒席可以简单但是婚戒得有,因为那是种承诺,如果什么都没有的话是对婚姻的侮辱,婚姻不仅仅是一张纸那么简单的事。还裸婚呢,那样的话还不如单身,一人吃饱,全家不饿,多好啊!
作者: xiaomeixin    时间: 2011-6-24 11:35

回复 18# xuxiaolin


    What you said is rather good.We can have no cars,but can't without a house.
作者: 李武军    时间: 2011-6-24 12:04

it is OK, I can accept it.........
作者: gl19860312    时间: 2011-8-17 17:38

I can not accept it , as a man!!

Why the reality of this world is really real!!


作者: gaolan    时间: 2011-8-17 21:27

本帖最后由 xiaomeixin 于 2011-8-18 14:56 编辑

when the love is coming,i accept it. but when i wake up ,i can't accept the nake wedding.  car and house is a lot of people's dream.
作者: kobe    时间: 2011-8-17 23:33

that is always I wanna do!
作者: H780723    时间: 2011-8-27 21:32

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作者: float    时间: 2011-9-5 13:33

本帖最后由 xiaomeixin 于 2011-11-1 23:13 编辑

we are naked wedding,we did't have house,car,diamond ring and no grand wedding ,Only treated our kindred  a dinner .
But now we have an(a) house,a car and a lovely baby.we are very happiness.
作者: hoyongqi    时间: 2011-9-5 16:21

本帖最后由 xiaomeixin 于 2011-11-1 23:14 编辑

i cann't(can't) accept naked wedding.if i haven't money,i'm not(won't get) married.
作者: Jessicalv    时间: 2011-9-5 17:06

It all depends on your current income .If you have enough REM,you can get anything you want ,otherwise naked wedding.
作者: 王笑天    时间: 2011-10-11 14:29

I can  accept  
but the man must be hardworking after marrying!
作者: 时尚岛01    时间: 2011-10-11 15:34

It's so common now
作者: smile_liuth    时间: 2011-10-11 19:15

i am on the way to naked wedding, for the same reason, he love me more than i love him. he is like the man who sings 'lao po, lao po, i love you'
作者: xiaomeixin    时间: 2011-10-12 10:20

回复 30# smile_liuth


    I am so glad that you've find your own happiness.
作者: sharey    时间: 2011-11-7 21:10

maybe my idea is different from others.as to me ,a simple ceremony  is a must.but a house and a car are not important. a simple ceremony is not only a ceremony ,i think it is a promise,after which there is responsibility between us and we must care each other forever.
作者: xiaomeixin    时间: 2011-11-7 21:32

回复 32# sharey


    Yeah,very good.
作者: 觉醒ing    时间: 2011-11-8 17:07

本帖最后由 xiaomeixin 于 2011-11-8 22:30 编辑

回复 1# xiaomeixin


    i cant't accept naked wedding .at least,house is necessery(necessary) no matter how small it is and a ceremary wedding is also necessery(necessary) .we can earn money at any time ,but we can't keep young all the time.
作者: xiaomeixin    时间: 2011-11-8 22:32

回复 34# 觉醒ing


    Frankly speaking,I agree your opinions.I can't accept naked wedding either.That made me feel unsafe.
作者: x5138077368    时间: 2011-11-9 11:22

回复 1# xiaomeixin

Worthwhile to look at each other naked so I went to marriage
作者: robe    时间: 2011-11-9 11:53

回复 5# Erikadyn


    accept others not yourself, ,you are so funny````````````
作者: 白天羽    时间: 2011-11-9 12:14

In general ,men accept it ,but women don't accept it.
作者: m1sswei    时间: 2011-11-9 20:52

if you loving a person,you may desperate to naked wedding ..
作者: davis081    时间: 2011-11-9 23:34

Never exist in rational thinking. But I think, they would see nothing except love so that they make a decesion of naked marriage when in the stage of hot love.
作者: sally2005    时间: 2011-11-11 12:26

But who can afford such expensive house, House slave is more difficult than naked wedding, unless you both have good & stable income. housing loan, you have to save money from everywhere, can't take taxi, can't buy more clothes, can't often go to restaurant.   you have to pay housing loan every month.....too many problems will come...
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作者: Angelayy    时间: 2011-11-16 16:17

I will not against about "naked wedding", but for myself, I hope a simple wedding ceremony, I hope to get family and friends' bless, and hope they could share my happiness.
作者: xiaomeixin    时间: 2011-11-16 16:22

回复 42# Angelayy


    You want to have a ceremony,then that's not naked wedding.
作者: polestar    时间: 2011-11-17 10:38

I think naked wedding is not very accepted by most  people in China, it maybe accepted by yonger people, but seldom for older people, as age going, the most become real in life
作者: 阿尔卑斯    时间: 2011-11-21 11:36

Meybe not.
作者: cathypoon    时间: 2011-11-25 17:24

本帖最后由 xiaomeixin 于 2011-11-26 14:43 编辑

House is a must(necessity). At lease have a house in hometown. We can spend our rest life in hometown when we are old. Others are not necessary.
作者: 小尾巴猪    时间: 2011-11-25 17:55

I cann't accept the wedding without a simple ceremony and rings. If we have good works and work hard, then  we can gain the  house, thus , I can accept, because I have some hopes.But if we have no works,no money,everything is unreal including marriage.
作者: xiaomeixin    时间: 2011-11-26 14:44

回复 46# cathypoon


    We can't say"House is a must",we should say it in this way,"House is a necessity."
作者: xiaomeixin    时间: 2011-11-26 14:47

回复 47# 小尾巴猪


    What you said is reasonable.Yeah,many of us can not accept a marriage without ceremony and ring.That seems not to be a marriage.House and car is becoming a necessity now.Many people accept partner's marriage proposal base on whether he has house and car or not.
作者: lynnfish    时间: 2011-11-26 15:52

I can accept naked wedding.When i married with my husband,we were naked wedding.I think the most impotant thing is you love your husband and your husband love you.If there is  love,we are not afraid anything.
作者: 心魔作祟    时间: 2011-11-26 17:47

本帖最后由 xiaomeixin 于 2011-11-28 17:55 编辑

I think it is ok~!
It is will be ture in the future.
作者: mfkhao2009    时间: 2011-12-3 12:20

回复 10# 练习者

    so practical you are! i appreciate you .
作者: 王加希    时间: 2012-10-10 15:50

I support,i am poor but i also need love.The one who love each other should get married.




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