I have a little panic decided, Because, friends, speaking, only

莎莎dawn

Do you rely on your friends?Are you afraid of departing from them?
Because of the working overtime ,my friend decided to live in the staff dormitory eventually.Not only that,she said she was so tired when getting home,she just wanna go to sleep quickly.But all blame to this terrible soundproof effect of the wall,she could hardly to being go sleep as soon as I was speaking Enlish.Well,she needed a definitely quiet surrouding(surroundings) to sleep,but I just couldn't give it.
Perhaps her decision for us to say,it was a good choice.However,I didn't know why I become a little panic and adrift as soon as I heard about this.You know,I seemed to have a habit of her presence in my world, she was my most intimate friend here,who participated in all my happies(hapiness) and unhappies(unhappiness).
Sometimes I also told myself,"It doesn't matter,everything will be fine,you shouldn't have relied on your friend too much ,be independent~!~!"But I just couln't contral(control) my heart,I even didn't wanna imagine what it would like to be when I lived alone.

莎莎dawn

回复 4# 练习者


    yeah,thank you,I am sure I can handle it well.

莎莎dawn

回复 3# tingroom


    yeah,everything will be fine~!~!Nobody have the responsibity(responsibility) to keep you(your) company all the time.

莎莎dawn

回复 2# xiaomeixin


    So, you must be a(an) independent girl,yeah,I shoudn't have bothered her~!~!

练习者

I think you should be independent and do not rely on anyone.Becoming good friends not means that you will be together all the time ,everyone should have their own space to do what they want to do .

tingroom

you are in the same city, you can visit her at weekend, you can call her.my best friend and i are not in the same city,but we still feel very close.we can share lots of things.we buy presents for each other.
you will get married and have your own family. it is impossible to live with her for the whole life. it is just a little earlier.so don't be so upset.everything will be ok!

xiaomeixin

We should be more independent.We've already grown up.We are adults.
When we meet something we can't decide,we always ask our friends for ideas.
Of course,everyone will do this.
However,we should know it,our friends can't help us at any time.We all have our own life.And if you always bother your friends,then might make your friendship getting worse.