如何帮助父母更好地度过晚年？ along

xiaomeixin

When we grow up and the parents become old, they will pay more attention and turn their focus on us again. They even become dependent--- as if we were parents and they were children. The exchange of roles has changed the communication mode between the two generations. On one hand, it is gentle and warm; on the other hand, there will be lots of contradiction and conflict. It will bring us new a problem: how do we get along well with our parents? How do we help them to spend their life? What will the change bring us?

当我们成人，父母逐渐老了。他们重新把注意力和生活重心倾向我们，甚至变得依赖——仿佛我们像父母，他们成了孩子。角色的倒置颠覆了两代人曾经的相处模式，既有温情一面，又带有许多矛盾和冲突。这给我们带来了新的难题：如何与老年父母更好地相处？如何帮助父母更好地度过晚年？这种变化给你带来了什么变化？

comi

Take care of them as the children. But the most important is we should carry them good spirital(spirit) and material environment.

huxiuyue

In my parents rest(retire) life I want to try my best to give them spirit love. they give me much and now it's my turn to meet them(their) requriement(requirement).

xiaomeixin

回复 4# maggieqiu


    Try to find them,or you may regret.

tingroom

回复 4# maggieqiu


    I think you have the right to know them.

maggieqiu

回复 3# xiaomeixin


Thank you very much!

I was considering whether to find my birth parents。

xiaomeixin

回复 2# maggieqiu


    Wish you have a good life.

maggieqiu

Yeah! My parents are very great, Because I am not the daughter of parents, I am their adopted. they are very love me.