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And were raised in the generation of men that were taught that expressing emotions is not “macho.”
何况在他们成长的那个年代,他们受到的是这样的灌输:流露情感没有“阳刚之气”。
Showing feelings or crying (heaven forbid!) was just not done.
人们不会轻易流露情感和哭泣(老天也不允!)。
So this was a very threatening assignment for some.
因此对某些人来说,这是一项令人生畏的任务。
At the beginning of our next class,
第二次上课一开始,
I asked if someone wanted to share what happened when they told someone they loved them.
我就问:当你告诉别人你爱他/她时,结果怎样?有没有人愿意讲一讲?
I fully expected one of the women to volunteer6, as was usually the case,
我满心指望像平常一样,某位女士能自告奋勇,
but on this evening one of the men raised his hand.
但是这天晚上,一位男士举起了手。
He appeared quite moved and a bit shaken.
他看上去很受感动的样子,还有一点颤抖。
As he unfolded out of his chair(all 6 2" of him),
当他从座椅上直起身来时(他身高6英尺2英寸), |
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