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upset~!~!

She was my friend ,and was my roomate too.We always got along very well with each oter.But It was in a few days ago that there was a problem between us.
The story was that recently, beause of working overtime she always got home very late sometimes even about 10:00.So felling down was very normally,but the abnormal was that she would be angry about me even ignoring or yelling at me sometimes ,as soon as she got home.Anyway,it's not me to ask her to work overtime,and not me to let her be so upset.You know,I all understood that it just would last a period,so I just choosed to keep silence when her yelling.Now,I always told mysely that friends should tolerate each other.However,despite we still were talking as usual,I always felt the atmosphere had a little weird.Wouldn't I freak out during this time,would I?I really didn't know,I was not a kindness girl~!~!

回复 25# SugerDaisy


    I am diffirent with you,when I live with this person that I just know her together,I must be feeling uneasy~!~!

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I think it is hard to live with friends, conflicts will appear, u just can't avoid that. So I usually live with people not that familar with me, then all I have to do when I return home is to say hello, then that's it.
It is lonely sometime, but it will make me relax, home is a place for me to relax, I don't want to pretend to smile any more, I want to be truthful to myself when I am home.

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回复 22# Temple


    yeah,I will .thanks~!~!

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It may be a good way to talk with her about your feelings, let her know that you are good friends, and her behaviour makes you feel perplexed. Talk with her sincerely then she can feel your sorrow, at the same time, it may be a chance for her to reduce pressure. Good luck!

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回复 6# 呆了


    thanks for correcting

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Communication is needed now!

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回复 17# godfly-ygw


    I totally agree with you!

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maybe something abnormal happened to her. you should talk with her. you both are good friends after all.
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  • Sanmal

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A person's mood can changes,because the pressure of work,the hot weather and on,that
these will lead to personal mood changes,
it is normal  to have a problem with each other
conmunication is  the good way to solve that
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回复 12# tingroom

yes i agree with your point
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You can take her out and have a relax,and have a talk
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回复 9# Sanmal


    I agree with you ! nothing is difficult in the world if you put your heart into it. as her friend, no matter what happen, you ought to chat with her in a proper way. try to communicate with her sincerely and solve problem together. only when you deal with problem together may you get on well with each other as usual. come on, you can make it !
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回复 12# tingroom


    Yeah,that's a good idea,she likes delicious food `!~!

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buy her some delicious food and talk to her
everyone may under great pressure,don't take bad mood to home,home is for us to relax.

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回复 9# Sanmal


    Well,thank you ,I will.

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回复 8# xiaomeixin


    That's right,it all will be gone .I am sure I must be waitting for that day~!~!

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本帖最后由 Sanmal 于 2011-6-10 21:26 编辑

回复 5# 莎莎dawn


    If you don't talk with her your problem, maybe she would think that what she is doing is something correct. She will develop a habit of doing that.  If you don't want to break her heart, you can ask her what do she feel on these days and try to solve the problem with her.  It's just my opinion and also it depends on your decision!

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回复 4# 莎莎dawn


    So,forgive her and be consideration.These difficulties must be gone someday.

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本帖最后由 xiaomeixin 于 2011-6-10 17:51 编辑

It's nothing,just let she(her) keep silence anytime,maybe she will be initiative in talking with you!
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