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【第104期】2010-12-15：喜形于色到底好不好？
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本期话题：喜形于色到底好不好？
众所周知，即使内心波涛汹涌，外表上也要看起来波澜不惊，这样才是成熟的表现。
It is known to us that even when a storm of emotion is surging through yourself,you should pretend to be calm as of nothing has happened,this should be called,maturity.
但是，由于克制情绪是个费精力的事情，那么做别的事时可能就没精力了。
But,since suppressing one's emotions sometimes is regarded as energy consuming,one tends to feel tired when doing something else.
当一个人向另个人倾诉自己过去很丢脸或伤心的往事时，其实往往是在向对方传达一个信息： 至少我不害怕你，反而我很信任你。
When a person is telling another person his sad stories,or something embarrassed,actually,the listener is receiving a message:at least i'am not afraid of you,on the contrary,i trust you.In this way,negative emotion released properly can be conducive to communication.
亲爱的朋友，在你看来，你会如何决择，隐藏情绪，还是喜形于色呢？
My dear friends,in your opinions,which one do you prefer?Hiding your emotion or just letting your face being brighten up?
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发表于 2010-12-15 00:40
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