【第19期】2010-8-23：女人该不该温柔? 女人

星期一

本期话题：女人该不该温柔?

自古以来，温柔就直接与女人挂勾。在古代，女人的必修课而且也是主修课就是要学会温柔。尤其对夫君不仅要温柔，而且要三从四德。对待他人要相当尊敬，禁忌冒犯，不能大声笑，不能大声哭，也不能大声说话，更加不得发脾气，尤其是发小姐脾气脾气了！就算受了委屈，也不敢出声，偷偷地掉眼泪，表现的就是女人的温柔细腻，宛如清水……

From of old, gentilesse is directly connected with women. In ancient times, a required course as well as a major course was to learn to be like a lady. Especially to their husbands, they should not only be gentilesse but also to obey. To other people, they should respect and cannot offend. They cannot laugh loudly; they cannot cry loudly; they cannot speak loudly; they cannot even lose their temper. When they really suffer some injustice, they are not allowed to say out, but to sweep the tear quietly, what reflects is the gentilesse of women, just like clean water…
   
但在当代,越来越多的女人似乎已脱胎换骨,摇身变成了“野蛮女人”或者是成功的“女强人”，她们不但拥有自己的生活主式，可以大声笑，大声哭，大声说话；而且拥有自己的事业，成为优秀的佼佼者，令无数男人钦佩！坚持男女平等，绝对不会忍气吞声，似乎已不再“温柔”？
        
While in modern times, even more women seem have thoroughly remould themselves, turning out to be “wild women”or successful “machisma”. They have their own life style; they can laugh loudly, cry loudly, and speak loudly. At the same time, they have their own career, and being an outstanding person, receiving admiration from men. The insist equality between man and women, and gentilesse seem have faded…

世态因轮回而变动，女人是否已被改变？该不该温柔？请你来回答！
         
The society changes along with the time, has women been changed yet?Should woman be gentilesse? Just say out your answer.




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