hello,guys~pls read the story carefully and then translate the phrases which are marked in red or write down your feeling to gain the scores~
Love means having a want for the person I love without having a need for that person in order to be complete. If I love you but you leave, I'll experience a loss and be sad and lonely, but I'll still be able to survive. If I am overly dependent on you for my meaning and my survival, then I am not free to challenge our relationship; nor am I free to challenge and confront you. Because of my fear of losing you, I'll settle for less than I want, and this settling will surely lead to feelings of resentment.
Love means identifying with the person I love. If I love you, I can empathize with you and see the world through your eyes. I can identify with you because I'm able to see myself in you and you in me. This closeness dose not implies a continual "togetherness", for distance and separation are sometimes essential in a loving relationship. Distance can intensify a loving bond, and it can help us rediscover ourselves so that we are able to meet each other in a new way.
Love involves seeing the potential within the person we love. In my love for another, I view her or him as the person she or he can become, while still accepting who and what the person is now. Goethe's observation is relevant here: by taking people as they are, we make them worse, but by treating them as if they already were what they ought to be, we help make them better.
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作者: float 时间: 2010-12-28 09:53
Distance and separation are sometimes essential in a loving relationship.作者: eedhatt 时间: 2010-12-28 21:25
My girl friend said goodbye to me two months ago. I have been sad until now and I don't know when I will get good. I think this article is very good. Thank icy_zhu .作者: icy_zhu 时间: 2010-12-28 22:40
回复 3#eedhatt I am sorry to hear that. if this passage can help you go out of your pain,I would be happy very much~作者: yezichen 时间: 2010-12-29 09:43
I want to give you a suggestion,please study for moderator like yy2235 ,say what do you want us to do clearly ,and please pay attention to the typesetting clear .
thank you very much for your suggeestion!
I will try my best to pay more attention to what you suggest!
and learn from yy2235~~作者: yezichen 时间: 2010-12-29 22:31
I always want to know whether I did a good job and what is my shortage in my job， but actually,you know,hardly ever somebody can point it out,I was very glad you help to do it for me~
I appreciate it very much.welcome next time! 作者: 骆叶飘飘 时间: 2010-12-30 21:39
good作者: lxw987654321 时间: 2011-2-27 10:47
nice作者: runpu.li 时间: 2011-3-2 14:06
this is a good article.作者: fangnan 时间: 2011-3-16 15:23
be loved,be needed,be independent作者: lishingtail 时间: 2011-4-1 16:19
so good ,what a beautiful essay!作者: 懂你LOVE 时间: 2011-5-29 11:21
I love you not because what you are,but because what I am with you.
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