please read the story carefully,then tell me what are you thinking about when you read the whole story~Don't be shy,just make your imagination fly in your sky!
A young father asked an elderly neighbor how strict parents should be with their children.
The old man pointed to a rope between a big tree and a young one, saying:"Untie the rope."
The young father did so and at once the young tree bent. Then the old man asked the young man to tie it again, and immediately the young tree stood upright as it used to.
Now the old man said,"There, it is the same with children. You must be strict with them for their healthy growth. But sometimes you must let them stand alone to see if they are strong enough. Being strict with them is for the sake of their independence development."
immediately the young tree stod upright as it used to. not "stod" instead of "stood".作者: xiaotantan 时间: 2011-5-13 10:19
yes，but i am not strict with my children，even sometimes i must hear and obey their ideas。what a poor mother i am，作者: 杨苏儿 时间: 2011-5-13 10:56
Parents of the child's education is a learned skill that requires parents to let their children think of myself as friend, then we can discuss problems encountered, as the child's learning will be more effective.作者: fangnan 时间: 2011-5-13 14:46
i have no idea about this topic.
what i can think out is respect & understand作者: shenjunqun 时间: 2011-5-13 15:51
i think the childer need a room to independence .if they stood his parents beside then they cann't really independence ,this is my view.作者: dragon520 时间: 2011-5-13 16:53
Chindren have their own opion,parents strict with them should use correct way.作者: yy2235 时间: 2011-5-13 19:29
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please read the story carefully,then tell me what are you thinking about when you read the whole story~Don't be shy,just make your imagination fly in your sky!