People always come into your life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly and inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend(n.天赐之物) to you, and they are.
When people come into your life for season, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.
Lifetime relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your joy is to accept the lesson, love the person; and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant（adj.透视的，有洞察力的）. Thank you for being part of my life.
