Inevitably, all of us have got hurt, some of which are intentionally or unintentionally: contempt, intimidation, backbiting, disguise, betrayal, cheat, departure, confrontation, abandonment …For those who had hurt you, who once brought so much pain, struggle and tears to you, today, do you still harbor animosity? Or you have already got out of the haze, escaped the emotion shackles and are enjoying life in an outburst of delight?
Affirmative side: I can make it.
I would be still a naiuml;ve greenhouse flower without those injury, and lack the endurance to the possible suffering of future. I’d like to thank those people, those who hurt me intentionally or just unintentionally, but let me break illusion and realize the reality.
After that, I can become stronger, much maturer, and know more about how to distinguish and treasure persons who truly love me.
Negative side: I can’t make it.
An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth. People should be responsible for what they have done. On what grounds should those victims grieve while those baddies are enjoying the pleasure of hurting others? And how can those shameless people who get pleasure at the others’ expense, have the right to acquire forgiveness or even ‘thanks’.
你能不能，或者说会不会，感谢那些曾经伤害过我们的人？因为，有了他们，我们现在过得更好。
Can you, or will you thank those who have hurt you some day before? for that we have a better life because of them.作者: 簿子酒 时间: 2009-12-9 22:48
