Getting back out into the dating world is a lot like going on job interviews. In fact, it is more of ajob interview when you think about it. That being said, you could be a perfectly lovely personbut if you do not groom yourself, you are not going to have much luck.
By all means, if you feel like trying a new look like a new hair color or cut, or new clothes, orgetting a makeup makeover, go for it. But make sure the person you are true to is yourself.
Do not go goth unless that is what you truly want. You never want to make a drastic change toyourself in hopes of impressing someone else. Make it the best version of yourself so you feeltruly recharged.
Get into your hobbies again. It is through these things that you might meet someone new thatyou will build a relationship with. But even if you don't, a person that has their own interestsand doesn't sit around waiting for life to happen is infinitely more attractive. Besides, it willkeep you busy and busy keeps you from wallowing in loneliness.
You will be super disappointed if you do. You may go out on a date with a guy and think youhad a fabulous time. He even kissed you goodnight and said he was going to call, but then henever did. Ditch your expectations and just go with it. Do not believe promises from people youjust met. Let them prove their worth to you to earn your trust.
