A song, a story or a special moment may have association about one’s past. It is believed that everyone may have a token for love and an episode. Some may be pleasant, while some may be sorrowful. When you happened to see the token many years later, you may then feel sort of sorrowful or pleasant. Then, how are you going to deal with the token left after the last romance? Will you burn it all at once? Will you put sway the love letters and photos in the attic? Will you reserve the story between you and him?
该不该扔掉旧情人的信物？
Shall we discard the token of ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend?
I think you'd better put something special in your heart. All the impressive and important memories are unforgettable. They are part of your life.作者: 谢岚 时间: 2010-8-30 12:19
本帖最后由 谢岚 于 2010-8-30 12:20 编辑
The impressive memory could always be somewhere in ur heart. it will not disappear but fade gradually. Cherish the true life u have gained .作者: lindaZ 时间: 2010-8-30 13:44
ya , it is real question . For different people , there are different methods to deal with the tokens in their life .
Even the tokens disappears someday ,but the memory should be never clear aways . It is there in deep heart ,even though may you never talk it again to anyone else .
Our life is full of such kind experiences and get the colorful history of our youth ~作者: dellphilips 时间: 2010-8-30 14:15
Just as the proverb saying"Each home has a skeleton in the cupboard".I think it's nothing that U keep the token of ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend. It's a stage in your life, without them, your life may not be completable. Everyone should have his/her own memory about the past,it is precious and unique, U don't have to force yourself to forget it.So ,please opening your heart to the past of yourself or your current girlfriend/boyfriend作者: greysky_mm 时间: 2010-8-30 22:03
well , at the time I broke up with my exboyfriend, I tried to throw out eveything he gave to me, not because I'm afraid that I will not forget him but because I think since the relationship was over, there was no need to keep the gifts.作者: 瞌睡虫 时间: 2010-8-31 15:42
I agree with the upstairs. No matter the memory is pleasant or sorrowful, it is already the past. So just discard it, it's no need to keeps these things. Of course the memory can not be discard instantly, but it will fade with time.
