【第95期】2010-12-06：怎么对待向自己撒谎的人？ 撒谎

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本期话题：怎么对待向自己撒谎的人？

     亲爱的朋友，你曾不曾对某个人撒谎？其实人有时候撒谎是正常的。你最近一次撒的谎是什么？其中的原因是什么？你对谁撒的这个谎呢？你又如何对待向你撒谎的人？你认为撒谎是不是不好或者不道德呢？

    My dear friends,have you ever lied to someone?It is common that everyone lies sometimes.What is the recently lies you've told?And for what reason you told it?Who did you told it to?How to treat the guy who lied to you ?Do you think it is bad or immoral to tell a lie?

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I  think it's  bad  and  immoral .

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do myself~ and never put her on the heart~

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Firstly, do not jump to conclusions that the lier is immoral or bad qulity, you had netter to learn his motives, I believe a good motives shines a lie. It isn't necessary for you to know everything, sometimes it is better for you to keep a distance of the truth, this helps you to get a good result in the future. For example, my husband told me that his parents likes me very much before our marriage, and I believed it. So I show my good manners and great patient to my parents-in-law, and they really got well with me.  With time going on, I find that my husband lied that his parents couldn't like me so much as his description. But it doesn't mattter, he just want to build a good environment for his wife and parents,  he meant no hurt， just love.
So I accept white lie.