【第60期】2010-11-01：朋友能成为恋人吗？ 恋人, 朋友

Solusrex

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本期话题：朋友能成为恋人吗？

     早在《哈里遇见赛丽》之前，专家、学者和老百姓们就在谈论和争议着男人和女人是否只能成为朋友。

     Long before the days of “When Harry Met Sally,” experts, scholars, and common folks engaged in dialogue and debate over whether men and women could be “just friends”.


     朋友之间往往有共同的兴趣，目标，并且相互尊重，彼此相识已久，因此两个朋友之间产生化学反应并不是新鲜事了。但是如果两个人从朋友做起，也有可能到最终也只能是朋友，也有可能一段失败的爱慕关系会毁了两人之间将来的友谊。由于这种事情事关道德，一旦你们跨越了这条界限，你们又能回得去吗？

     friends always share similar interests and goals, mutual respect, a long history,therefore it is not strange that chemistry may come up between two good friends.But,If two start out as friends, that’s may how they’d stay to the end;Or a failed relationship might ruin a future friendship. Since its all about morality,once you cross the line, can you ever go back?

     亲爱的朋友们，你认为两个相爱的但又是好朋友的人又应该或能不能成为恋人呢？
     My dear friends,do you think if two good friends really love each other,should or can they become lovers?

Demon、

As you side,If two start out as friends, that’s may how they’d stay to the end;Or a failed relationship might ruin a future friendship.
So I think friends shouldn't become lovers!

Solusrex

As you side,If two start out as friends, that’s may how they’d stay to the end;Or a failed relatio ...
Demon、 发表于 2010-11-1 20:33

    That's may be the most distant way in the world..

davy10

why not ,anything is possible

面包脸脸

Since you two really love each other,I think you can be lovers.It's not nessary to hide your feelings just because you're friends.Don't regret yourself,I think.Even if you may break up,you can't be freinds again,but this relationship may be your special memory and as time goes,you may be friends,but not so good ever,but what matters,you were lovers for a period of time.

Solusrex

Since you two really love each other,I think you can be lovers.It's not nessary to hide your feeling ...
面包脸脸 发表于 2010-11-5 11:15

    To be lovers or friends,is a hard choice

shenjunqun

maybe

macp

I think it will be lovers
If they are good friends , they can understand each other !
If they will be lovers , i think they can live a good life !

Solusrex

I think it will be lovers
If they are good friends , they can understand each other !
If they will  ...
macp 发表于 2010-11-13 19:22

    Let's bless them,and wish other people would bless them

sandor

回复 8# macp

I think,difficult to declare to erch other betweeen good friends ,if refused,may not have made friends.

macp

回复 10# sandor


    I am agree with you !

aneie

if they love each,there's no doubt that they will become lovers   unless one loves another but another just wants to be friends. if it is the latter they may not be lovers and  even not be friends any more

xiazhizz

I think it can. People say that the development of lovers also come from friends, and love at first sight although there are, but I think not much.