The Buddha famously said, 'Hatred is not overcome by hatred, but only by love.' That challenges all parties in a conflict to look beyond their differences; and friends who work in conflict resolution tell me that the way ingrained and seemingly intractable conflicts are sometimes resolved is often not what we would anticipate. _______________________________________________________. Conflict, however intense it may be in the present and however deeply rooted in the past, is a challenge to our empathy and imagination.
但是佛祖曾经说过:“冤冤相报何时了,得饶人处且饶人”。这句话要求冲突的各方都能抛开分歧。为互相冲突的方案工作的朋友们告诉我,看似根深蒂固,非常棘手的问题有时会以我们没有预料到的方式解决。_____________________________________。无论冲突现在多么严重,在过去多么根深蒂固,所考验的知识我们的同情心和想象力。