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After returning, he missed the princess day and night
回去之后，他日日夜夜都想念着公主
Some days later, they came to see the man again and told him they had asked the princess to marry him, but she rejected
几天之后，他们再次去看他并告诉他，他们已经请求公主嫁给他了，不过公主拒绝了。

To some extent,I think this method is cheating oneself. Accroding to the story said , he  absolute can not make dream come ture.Why to do ?For what?