点滴故事：不要试图改变某人NO OVERPOWERING change, 故事, love

evaxiaofan

NO OVERPOWERING

Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."

It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..

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回复 3# evaxiaofan


    yes, I think so.

evaxiaofan

回复 2# yy2235


    that's right, you choose this man or woman, that means you also love all of this person's, including merits and demerits.

yy2235

We shouldn't demand more, only enjoy life, enjoy the spouse character.