2011-6-4故事：不要降低自己的标准 home, 故事

yy2235

please read the story carefully,then translate red sentences and tell me what are you thinking about when you read the whole story~Don't be shy,just make your imagination fly in your sky!

            
          Suppose a child comes home with a report card with five As and one B. Usually the first thing his parents will say is "Why the B?" What do you think will go through the child’s mind? Did he try for the B? Or should his parents congratulate the child for the B and accept a lower standard? Not at all.
         What the child is really looking for acknowledgement and encouragement for the effort in getting the five As. A parent after acknowledging and praising the As, can make clear his expectations of seeing all six As and offer help if needed. If we lower our standards, the chances are pretty good that the performance next time would drop to those expectations.
        Similarly at work, an employee does 100 things right and one thing wrong. Guess what the boss picks on.
        Acknowledge the positive but don't lower your standards.
          假如一个孩子带回家一张五个A，一个B的成绩单，他的父母亲首先通常会这样问：“为什么得了个B？”你认为孩子心里会怎么想？难道他是争取得个B吗？或者父母亲应该祝贺孩子得了个B，并接受这较低的标准吗？根本不是。
         

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父亲或母亲可以在承认和赞扬这些A之后，表明想要看到六个A的愿望，并表示如果需要，可以提供帮助。如果我们降低自己的标准，那么下一次的成绩很可能低于那些期望。
          同样，在工作上，一个雇员做了100件正确事而做了一件错事，猜猜老板会挑出哪件事。
         

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lilo520

顶一下，不错不错....

eljtyds

答谢和鼓励是孩子努力得到5个A的真正目的
积极的鼓励但不要降低你的标准

黑隐

孩子希望的是（比起得到一个B的成绩）（父母）更能认可和继续鼓励得到5个A的努力

认可值得肯定的地方，并不是降低了要求的标准

bubu熊

seaso

The wise boss always praises the right which you have done
a good job,then tell you what you should doand be careful about the wrong.so you will have a good mood and have a further progress.on the contrary ，The stupid man often does things foolishly.they often pick on the wrongs.NO matter what you have or not done a good job.I have met the stupid one.so poor .

Vicky_Xu

孩子真正希望得到的是肯定和鼓励从他获得的5个A上面。
认可肯定但不能降低你的标准。

人无论到什么时候都不能降低自己的标准，自己的梦想。只有更高的标准，更高的梦想，你才会不断的努力，去追求，去梦想。

zst1

我感悟到大：当我达到父母的一个标准后，应该不着迷与父母的赞言，应该提高自己的标准，并为此在付出努力！

liuxingbi_wjx

是啊！轻易降低自己的标准，意味着你将离理想越来越远！

dentist

thank you

xanderbee

actually i dunno what it meanso(╯□╰)o

簿子酒

cblbewhy

感谢！

Blueleaf

What the child is really looking for acknowledgement and encouragement for the effort in getting the five As.
孩子期望得到的是（家长）对他得到5个A付出的努力的认同和鼓励。

Acknowledge the positive but don't lower your standards.
肯定成绩但是不要降低你的标准。

亦东

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    !!!!!!!!!!!

tea124

、孩子想要的是认同并且鼓励他努力后取得5个A的成绩。

cradlexy

孩子想得到你的认可和称赞，是他通过努力得到5个A
认可成绩但不能降低标准

mzklhy

孩子心里想得到鼓励和称赞他通过努力得到的五个a。
肯定成绩但不能降低标准。

张家溯

The boss will say"good job!2355,you could accomplish better  "Boss is the one who rocks one's brains to encourage you work hard.

cavalier99

孩子得5个A是为了得到鼓励
积极努力但是不降低标准。